Forældrenes dårlige samvittighed:

I året 2019 har der været mange demonstrationer og protester over børnehavernes undernormering i Danmark.

Der mangler simpelthen personale i mange børnehaver. Det enkelte barn får ikke den nødvendige voksenkontakt, som det har brug for i den alder.

Kynisk formuleret kan de fleste forældre nok leve med den virkelighed. Her tænkes på formuleringen: ”Ude af øje, ude af sind.”

Virkeligheden bliver en lidt anden, når forældrene bliver præsenteret for den rå sandhed i fjernsynet under aftenkaffen.

I det lys bliver forældrene konfronteret med deres egen dårlige samvittighed.

Forældrene ved jo godt i deres hjerter, at de selv burde give deres børn den nødvendige nærhed, omsorg og kærlighed.

Her vil undskyldningen typisk være, at der er brug for begge forældres arbejdskraft i samfundet. Faktum er imidlertid, at der findes masser af ledig arbejdskraft i EU, som kan hentes ind.

Forældrene vil nok også undskylde sig med, at deres levestil kræver 2 indtægter.

Det er rigtigt, hvis man vil købe en bolig til flere millioner, før man er 30 år og vil holde ferie for mere end 50.000 kr. om året.

Men mindre kan vel også gøre det. I stedet kunne forældrene vælge at give deres børn topprioritet, når de er helt små.

Så må forbrugsgoderne vente.

Konsekvensen ved at nedprioritere børnene:

Forældrene vil finde ud af, at det kan betale sig, når de selv bliver afhængige af andre i deres alderdom.

Desværre er der lidt for mange forældre, der anser deres børn som en slags ”investering”.

Forældrene lader vildtfremmede og institutioner tage sig af deres børn, når de er små.

Det sker med en tro på, at de kan helligere sig deres børn og børnebørn, når de selv bliver pensionerede.

Her har forældrene gennemført det ønskede karriereforløb og anser det for naturligt at høste frugterne af deres arbejde.

Problemet er bare, at deres børn ser lidt anderledes på det.

Der vil komme en dag, hvor forældrene ikke er i stand til at tage sig af selv.

Den dag vil deres børn køre dem hen på det nærmeste plejehjem

Børnene vil ikke gøre det, fordi de er onde.

De vil gøre det, fordi de ikke ved bedre. For dem vil det være en naturlig handling at lade andre tage sig af deres forældre.

Det er den bagage, som de selv er vokset op med.

Humor hjælper dig igennem livet.

Du bliver først fri i hjertet/sjælen, når du lærer dig selv at kende.

Sandheden forløser på længere sigt.

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